Signs That Indicate Your Romantic Relationship Is Slowly Dying

Ups and downs are an unavoidable part of every relationship, and being involved with someone romantically takes work every now and then. But what should you do when the relationship demands more work than play?

Newly-single people often complain that they regret not giving up on their romantic relationship sooner. Sadly, the signs of a worsening and failing relationship are generally abundant, but sometimes people fail to understand what signs they should be looking for. Keep reading to look out for signs that indicate your romantic relationship is slowly dying.

You both are incessantly critical of each other

Using stark criticism as a tool to rectify your partner’s behavior or actions—and ultimately their character—should be viewed as a major red flag indicating your alliance is in danger. How to identify if you are too critical? Look out for generalized allegations in your statements like “You never,” or “You always.” Such statements can make your partner feel like they can “never” please you—it acts as a catalyst in widening the gulf between lovers.

Neither of you resolve disputes constructively anymore.

Does your partner avoid talking to you for days whenever there is a disagreement? Do you prefer giving your lover the cold shoulder or the silent treatment instead of trying to resolve the conflict constructively? Building such tall walls in between will inevitably topple down your relationship. How you make up after an argument indicates the health of every relationship.

The relationship lacks emotional connection.

Comfort is one of the most important cornerstones in every relationship. A healthy romantic alliance always depends on how comfortable you and your partner are in being truly open to one another while sharing opinions, feelings, and ideas. If you catch yourself not being open or honest with your partner, it is probably time to walk away. Similarly, if you feel your partner is not sharing their feelings and thoughts with you, it is probably because they don't feel a deep connection anymore.

There is no trust

Lack of trust can spread like an inferno and cause your relationship to collapse, and it may occur in stages. It might begin with doubting them and questioning their trustworthiness. If the doubts remain unresolved, it results in growing suspicion. This, in turn, leads to anxiety and feelings of uneasiness. And anxiety can make a person fearful, stopping them from being vulnerable and open. Finally, when you experience fear, you withdraw. Therefore, a lack of trust can damage the relationship beyond repair. If you are unable to trust your partner, do not try to flog a dead horse.

If you and your partner are not engaging in such unhealthy activities, there is probably no need for you to worry.