Life-Changing Lessons You Should Learn Before Turning 40

Are you getting older and wiser, or simply aging?

As we grow up, we gain knowledge, wisdom and develop perspective through our life experiences. It is only through retrospection and self-awareness that we can learn meaningful lessons and mentor others while committing to a fulfilling life. As you prepare yourself to set out on the journey of a new year of your life—on your 40th birthday—spend some time evaluating your failures and successes. Below are some life-changing lessons you should learn before turning 40.

You are never too old or too late to try something new.

During the early years of your life—when you are younger—it may seem critical to follow the existing social norms and influences to fit in. But there is no age limit to seeking your ultimate happiness or bliss in life—move to a new city, change your career, buy a new car, fall in love—in short, do whatever delights you. Every individual is different and has unique choices. Do not allow anyone to tell you, "40 is too late to try something new."

Enjoy the journey

Your life is all about the journey and not the destination—each day is precious. If you concentrate all your joy on the destination, you will fail to enjoy the journey. This applies to everything—from attaining financial health to physique changes, relationships, and more. Try to seek peace and solace along the journey, value the current phase of your life and be grateful. Do not allow hard times to overwhelm or stress you out—be more resilient.

Live a powerful life.

You should consider looking for a “Why?” behind every aspect of your life—your money, actions, training program, nutrition plan, people you want to spend time with, and more. Live in the moment, improve your skills, expand your ideas and thoughts, and explore your comfort zones. Focus more on creating experiences instead of letting things occur on their own.

Choose quality over quantity.

When choosing friends, pick those who add value and meaning to your life. During the early years of your life, you may want many friends, but as you age, you will realize that having a few loyal friends is better than having a big group of fake friends. Friends who do not support you and emotionally drain you out, are not worth holding on to. Keep only the good ones around.

Accept that not everyone will always like you.

You will feel liberated when you acknowledge that not everyone you know will like you forever, regardless of how hard you try. Some people will fail to vibe with you all your life, and that should not bother you.

If you embrace these life lessons before turning 40, you can age gracefully.