Published By: Nomeeta

Happy Birthday R Madhavan: Did you know the 'Tanu Weds Manu' actor's first love was never acting?

Happy Birthday to the star who never planned on becoming one.

Who can forget the charming “chocolate boy” from ‘Rehnaa Hai Terre Dil Mein’ or the unforgettable line “Abba nahi maanenge” from ‘3 Idiots’? Today, R. Madhavan turns 55, and it’s the perfect time to celebrate his incredible journey. A beloved figure not just in Hindi cinema, but also a powerhouse in Tamil films, Madhavan has carved a unique space for himself in Indian cinema. From hits like ‘3 Idiots’, ‘Tanu Weds Manu’, and ‘Rang De Basanti’ to his powerful directorial debut ‘Rocketry: The Nambi Effect’—where he portrayed the brilliant Indian rocket scientist Nambi Narayanan—his work has garnered widespread acclaim.

But how did this recognition come to be? Interestingly, acting wasn’t Madhavan’s first love. Let’s take a closer look at the fascinating path that led him to stardom.

From NCC Cadet to Cinema: How a Missed Deadline Led to a Movie Career For Madhavan

  1. Madhavan has been a constant force in the entertainment industry for over 25 years, steadily building an impressive career as both an actor and director. He began his journey in the world of television, appearing in a handful of serials before coming to the big screen—eventually becoming one of Indian cinema’s most beloved stars.

But here’s something not many know—acting was never his original ambition. Born to a Tamil family, Madhavan was raised in a disciplined, academically inclined environment. His father, Ranganathan, worked as a management executive, his mother, Saroja, was a bank manager, and his sister, Devika, went on to become a software engineer. Young Madhavan, however, had his sights set on the armed forces.

A devoted NCC cadet, Madhavan was deeply involved in military training during his college years. At 22, he was selected as one of the top NCC cadets in Maharashtra and was sent to England, where he trained with the British Army, the Royal Navy, and the Royal Air Force. For a time, he seriously considered a military career—but fate had other plans. He missed the age cut-off for entry into the forces by just six months.

After this setback, Madhavan began teaching courses in public speaking and personality development to support himself. It was during this phase in Mumbai that he decided to build a portfolio and approach a modelling agency, hoping to earn some extra income to start his own office.

Fate intervened again when a television executive spotted him on the street and offered him a role in a Hindi TV serial. One thing led to another, and soon Madhavan made his move to films—marking the beginning of a journey in the entertainment industry that has only grown stronger with time.