Early Signs That Indicate Your Child Is An Introvert
No two introverted kids are alike, but they often exhibit some early signs and characteristics that can help parents understand them better.
As a curious parent, you may be searching for subtle hints that reveal the nature of your little one’s personality. Does she have an inherent sense of humor or a grave demeanor? Is he brave, or likes to play it safe? Is your little bundle of joy an extrovert or an introvert? Parents can determine that early on because children start showing signs of extroversion or introversion—from the time they are four months old. Below are some signs that indicate your toddler may be an introvert.
They are sensitive to noise.
If you notice that your toddler often gets quiet or shuts down completely when exposed to a lot of people, excessive noise, or plenty of distractions—chances are—they are an introvert. For introverts, over-stimulating circumstances can be overwhelming or stressful. While extroverted kids often complain about getting bored, introverted kids are more sensitive to their surroundings and can easily feel overwhelmed. Some common signs include: becoming quiet, clinging to the known people in the room (like, parents or siblings), and avoiding eye contact.
Curious minds but cautious explorers!
Introverted kids are usually very sharp and have curious minds. They have too many questions about the world and how it works and are unafraid to explore new things. But they also prefer observing things first, taking time to reflect on their actions, instead of jumping into things headfirst. If your toddler prefers watching other kids before joining in at the daycare or the playground, they may be an introvert.
They take time to open up in social settings.
Introverted children usually take some time to get comfortable around new people, and they don’t reveal their “real” personality right away. At first, they might seem shy or stay quiet when meeting someone for the first time, but they slowly shed their reserved demeanor once they get comfortable. When communicating with someone new, introverted kids try to connect on a much deeper level than extroverted kids.
They prefer solo activities or games.
Most introverted kids are gifted with creative and vivid imagination, with which they create a richer inner world that feels alive and real to them. If your little one spends hours focused on playing with a specific toy, they might be an introvert. If they are a little older, they might spend most of their time in their bedrooms, enjoying solitary activities like painting, reading, playing a musical instrument, or computer games.
A busy day might induce a meltdown.
Introverted children get drained after socializing too much and need some alone time to revive their energy. When your toddler is spending time with other kids, observe their behavior and how they are reacting. Are they feeling overwhelmed, tired, or cranky after a playdate? If yes, chances are, your child is an introvert. They might also experience a meltdown and cry after spending a very busy day.
Look for these subtle signs to cater to your toddler’s emotional needs.
